“Because lack of lubrication can make anal play uncomfortable or even painful (which we want to avoid at all costs), you’d be wise to re-apply before you think you need to.” The wetter, the better. “The rectum absorbs fluids back into the body,” Soper says. Sucking his cock with my Dildo in his ASS leads to him Riding my STRAP-ON like the SLUT he is POV. You also shouldn’t be surprised if you have to re-apply the lubrication mid-way through your play sesh-even if you do choose a thick ass lube (pun intended). Pretty skinny amateur french slut sodomizes her boyfriend with strapon dildo. Just remember that oil-based lubricants can *never* be applied with any latex barrier you might use (condoms, dental dams, finger cots, etc), since they can damage the latex.
“Silicone-based lubes are considered top-tier for anal play because they stay on for longer periods of time compared to water-based lubes, which are more-easily absorbed into the body, ” Soper explains.īut if you're using silicone anal toys, oil-based lube is the best choice, she says, as silicone-based options may break down the materials in your toy. And the thickest lube of them all? Silicone-based lube. However, the best lube for anal play is thick lube. You should watch out for flavored and scented lubes, though, which have irritating and sometimes desensitizing ingredients, which can cause people to go deeper, harder, or thicker than their body would like, causing a risk of pain or injury, Soper says. The truth is most lubes you might use for vaginal, vulvar, penile, or pleasure product play can double as anal lube. But with lube and a little patience, anal play can be downright orgasmic. But too much friction can irritate the delicate anal tissues and increase the risk of tearing and infection. Sure, a little bit of friction while you frick-frack is fine. “Lubrication increases moisture in the area, and therefore helps decrease the amount of friction during penetrative play." That means you should call in all the help you need by adding an anal lube to your sex drawer. "The anal canal is not self-lubricating the way most vaginal canals are," she says.
Why? Well, without the addition of store-bought lubrication anal sex isn’t just less pleasurable, it can be pretty painful- and anal sex (say it with us!) isn’t supposed to be painful, says Jordan Soper, PsyD, certified sex therapist with Promescent, a sexual wellness brand explains. Lube is to anal sex what communication is to a healthy relationship: vital.